FAQ

Do I need experience with BDSM to meet with you?

Experience isn’t a requirement.
Some bring practical experience, others curiosity: both are welcome.
What matters is openness and your willingness to engage—with the session, with me, and with my guidance.

What happens if I feel unsure or want to stop?

Your boundaries are a priority. A safeword is, of course, part of this and will be respected by me at all times.
If you feel unsure or want to end a situation, you can pause or stop the session at any time.
For me, a mindful and responsible framework always comes first.

How discreet is a session?

Discretion is a given for me. Everything that happens and is said between us remains confidential.
The organizational setup is also designed so that you won’t encounter anyone else. Our encounter takes place undisturbed and in a safe space.

What happens if emotions start to surface?

Emotions are not a disruptive factor, but part of a genuine encounter.
Sometimes, deeper layers open up during a session.
This is nothing unusual.
I hold this space with awareness, clarity, and presence, so that whatever emerges is allowed to have its place.

What role does pain play in your work?

Pain is a language, not the goal.
It can help focus, open up, and deepen.
It is one of many possibilities, not a requirement.
What emerges between us is always decisive.

How much control do I relinquish?

As much as you are willing to.
We define the framework together beforehand:
Boundaries, taboos, and safe words are clear.
Within this framework, I take the lead. Not to overpower you, but to give you security so that you can let go.

What is the minimum duration for appointments?

Sessions are available starting at 60 minutes.
My fee for this duration is 300 euros.
Longer sessions can be arranged by individual agreement and will be adjusted accordingly.